Who benefits more in marriage, Men or Women?
We already know marriage as a union between a man and a woman. This union could be legal, traditional, or religious. All the above-mentioned types of marriage can be combined to form a single marital union. The most important thing is that the marriage is right. Still, when it comes to religious marriage, which some people also call a white wedding, so many cultures have it that the couple must first of all go through the traditional marital process before they can be wedded religiously.
Today, we will explore a question that has been drawing attention for a long time. This question has been raising dust because numerous controversies now surround the institution of marriage. The worst part of it is that it is no longer what it used to be in the 80s and 90s. A lot has changed about marriage, and it is no longer what it is supposed to be in most cases.
Why Marriage Is No Longer What It Used to Be.
To the best of my knowledge, the primary factor that contributes to the decline of the institution of marriage, especially in the 21st century, is the evolution of social media. Yes, I said so. Social media has, in most areas, done more harm than good. A lot of people who are going through the emotional difficulties of divorce would intentionally create a page on their social media accounts, get a smartphone and ring light, to teach others how to disrespect their partners, and thereby teach them how to destroy their homes.
I think they do this to make sure they succeed in breaking a lot of homes. They have decided to go ahead and ensure that other people’s marriages will not work, as if it were anybody’s fault that they could not keep their own homes in order. They become so intentional about this that it will be evident to anyone who cares to observe that they are on a mission of homebreaking and family destruction.
How they gain a Lot of Followers in a Short Space of Time
So, I don’t know if you have observed how these people gain a lot of social media followers in a short space of time as soon as they start creating such content on social media. Like I said earlier, marriage is no longer what it used to be. Trust me, many people in this institution today are looking for a way to leave and go their separate ways.
So, they are looking for someone who will encourage them and support what they already have in mind. They like to follow and always listen to someone who can help and validate what they are already planning to do. This is why, anytime and anywhere they come across anyone preaching against respect and submission in marriage, they will immediately click the follow button, as that is what they are already looking for. Therefore, the owner of this page will gain a significant number of followers overnight.
And now, this brings me to the main topic of today. Let’s go ahead and look at it critically to find out who benefits more in this marriage between men and women.
Who Benefits More In Marriage?
Now, let’s get real here! From all the initial explanations I provided, I am only trying to establish the fact that what we have or what we are experiencing today, in terms of marriage, is not the same as what it used to be a few decades ago.
The reason I said you can put almost all the blame on social media is that it has made it easy for most of our ladies, both married and single, to continue hearing and seeing those things that corrupt their minds and thoughts.
Nowadays, a married woman may still have another man who keeps her company on social media, despite being married. They justify their acts by saying that their husband are too busy for them. This man has to work day and night just to put food on the table and take care of their family.
And on the other hand, those young men who have made it their job to always be in her inbox to chat with her and tell her how beautiful she is have no job. They are idle and lazy, and so it seems they have all the time for the woman whose husband is busy in his shop or office, working hard to provide for his family.
The Result of This Bad Character
So, of course, you already know what this is going to lead this married couple into, right? Divorce or separation. However, either way, the end of the marriage will be the endpoint. And now the big question of the day is: what happens when this marriage ends? Who will suffer the most, the man or the woman?
Now, to start with, remember that society does not consider or favour men when it comes to marital issues. In fact, in most cases, people tend to believe the woman more than they believe the man. You can hardly see those who would. What happens is that once the lady comes out with her manipulative stories and adds some manipulative tears to it, boom! The man automatically becomes the villain in the entire issue.
Many people will begin to blame him for everything. Telling him that he should have considered his little kids and understood that they are going to be in the middle of this whole issue. He would get a lot of blame from almost everyone, and that would lead to depression and so on.
How about the kids?
I’m sure you must have noticed by now that children tend to listen to and believe their mother more often when a situation like this arises in a marriage. You know how emotionally manipulative some mothers can be with their children. This mother already knows that the children can hardly withstand her tears. And she already understands how manipulative and powerful her tears can be on her kids. So that becomes her greatest weapon. It has become her number one strategy. She would use it whenever she wanted to tarnish her husband’s image in front of the kids. She would do anything in any way possible to make sure that her kids would begin to dislike their father.
She will end up making sure that they forget about the man who has toyed with them day and night to provide for them. Now, have you seen how the man in question will lose his wife and also his children at the same time? This is because the woman has succeeded in spoiling their mind and turning them against their father.
So I asked you again? Who benefits more in marriage, men or women? Of course, you already know the answer by now.
Thank you for reading!
